BHOOT AAYA
During childhood times, all kids were notorious & I was no more exceptional not only in my family but also in my building of 140 flats. Over a top of it, I was youngest in my family so have an opportunity to be most pampered kiddos... ...my injuries like 10 stitches on my bum, tons of stitches on my skull & forehead, multiple fracture in Wrist, tailbone & both legs are witness to my silent solder attitude.
During childhood times, all kids were notorious & I was no more exceptional not only in my family but also in my building of 140 flats. Over a top of it, I was youngest in my family so have an opportunity to be most pampered kiddos... ...my injuries like 10 stitches on my bum, tons of stitches on my skull & forehead, multiple fracture in Wrist, tailbone & both legs are witness to my silent solder attitude.
Mom had left for heaven abode when I was merely 12 years
old so I was grownup seeing Papa doing job in 3 shifts & my bother/sister
taking care of me. But I never remember, (other than studies) I was ever scold
by anyone in my family. Yes, I was very much afraid of Darshana as in studies,
she was my teacher....
In today's time, I see lot of parents fire their children
with different ways. Recently visited one of my relatives home, who was making
his 3 years old son afraid of "bhoobhoo". With curiosity I asked him
the meaning & significant of name - "bhoobhoo". He referred me
to Lord Ganesh Pandal's speaker Testing patterns as "bhoobhoo"
roaring to this infants."HELLO MIKE TESTING. HELLO ONE TWO THREE TESTING".
That small tiny boy was in puzzle & started crying as he doesn't know that
sound come from loud speakers & he was been told that "bhoobhoo"
is in sky & firing big crackers on him .....poor boy...
Dhyeya is now 11 years of age, I never remember, I must
have ever fired him or maybe I am just following bonafide chain from my parents.
I never raise my voice or hands on him. To make him understand of good &
Bad....Every night I share "KRSNA Katha" from "Bhagavad-Gita"
which I learned from ISKON & I keep him engage with puzzles & stories
of Akbar-Birbal etc with hilarious name as “KANHA”.
From past 3-4 morning, I observed he was intentionally
dropping his "twins “Almond at home. Per kg of 'MAMRO' Almond cost me
Rs.950 so thought to make him realized the importance of each Penny. ...so I told
him that "this year's Daddy is going
to celebrate his birthday with Orphanage kids who are either without
parents, physically handicapped or mentally disorders. I am going to celebrate
my birthday with them with Birdy's Almond Cake, wafers & one day meal on
30th September 2013."….. The moment I complete my statement, I see his
face became pale, looks like in Comatose & within nick of time, he gallop both
almonds in his mouth & started chewing like an bubblegum as if he is
enjoying each particles of Almonds. .....
This instant reaction of Dhyeya fire an idea in my mind to celebrate my 40th birthday at Orphanage house.