Monday 18 December 2017

Dracula blood hound


Most of the time Dhyeya is always in war of words with Manju on dinner menu. Manju try her hands on desi spicy cuisine where as Dhyeya like tongue twister fancy & continental food.
No doubt Dhyeya is always winner because Manju prefer to bow down with his ladla ladoo...After finalization on Dhyeya choices of food, Manju give telephonic updates to Shilpa on dinner menu & she starts her sweet apathy with dialogue"bhabhi dekho na, Dhyeya mera khoon pee raha hain" & as a referee, Shilpa laugh out loud with new story of Dhyeya's sweet war with Manju......

Friday 8 December 2017

Life of soldiers ...

originally posted on fb on January'26-2014


What life of Soldiers, express by his own words!!!
I was at Wagha Border, Attari, Amritsar in 2009..

After chatting for few seconds with this Soldier named Dhansing Purohit from Rajasthan, I felt like their life is like turbulence as they r always away from their family life. 
Being onto Pakistan Border, their life is always on hooked to death but they never fear as a slogan of death & patriotism is in their blood. They always sing a slogan of non-fearism what if they die in war-zone.
If they took me up & returned me with flag on my chest,
Box me up & send it to my home.
Put medals also on my chest,
Tell my Mom, i did my best on border.
Tell my Dad, not to cry.... He wont get tension from me anymore.
Tell my brother to study perfectly....Keys of my bike will be his permanently.
Tell my sister not to be upset.... Her brother will rise after sunset for veer pasali.
Tell my children to grow for betterment of Society
And tell my love not to cry...
BECAUSE I AM SOLDIER, BORN TO DIE....
JAI HIND....

My Windshield...Asmiben

originally posted on fb on August'20-2017


The other day, I was shocked to see my car windshield crack due to tree branch fallen on one corner. I was okay as the tree branch didn't fall on any of kids who played hide & seek in parking area but my car took a tole...
I feel windshields is also one of safety device just like seat belts and airbags. I was shocked because the adhesive creates a strong molecular bond between the glass and the vehicle & If the adhesive bond fails (due to stroke) at any point on the glass which can reduce the effectiveness of the air bag and substantially compromise the structural integrity of the roof & life of mine.
We all knows that none of us have many more years to live, optimistically I was in the mid life or 2nd half of my life & we can't take along anything when we r gone...be it my luxurious car also....
I thought I Spend the money
that should be spent,
enjoy what should be enjoyed,
donate what I am able to donate,
but don't make my child & grandchildren become parasites who may be waiting for the day i will die ! !
We should not worry about what will happen after we are gone because when we return to dust, we will feel nothing about praises or criticisms. The time to enjoy the worldly life and my hard earned wealth will be over ! ! !
After moving to bigger home, I had stopped worrying too much about Dhyeya, as he will have his own destiny & he should find his own way. I will show him way of success but walking on the road, will be his job.
Life should have more to it than working from cradle to grave.
One day passes without happiness, you will lose one day.
One day passes with happiness,
then you gain one day.
In good spirit,
sickness will cure.
In a happy spirit,
sickness will cure faster.
In high & happy spirits;
sickness will never come.
Stress leads to sickness & stress means the gap between expectations & reality.
More the gap, more the stress.
Expect nothing
But accept everything.
Above all, learn to cherish the goodness around and FRIENDS.
They all make you feel young & "wanted".
Without them, you are surely to feel lost ! !
The broken windshields is driving my best memories with Asmitaben. Her sudden death without alarm, was shocking moments for all of us, especially for Ajay as he has saved life of many but he could do nothing for his own loving mom. Destiny waits for none, let be doctor like him...
Driving 4 times a week for 75km to & from Mulund was still okay with me but the pain that Asitaben left for heaven abode was more painful & devastating situation for us....She was like a mother to me & Shilpa, she was like windshields to many lives, who has taken shelters under such a beautiful soul...wife, loving mom, mom-in-law, dadi, caretaker, a friend, aunt, sister & endless names...
Learn to "LET GO".
Because You cannot have the next breath until you let go the existing one....
......dasvidaniya to beautiful soul.
You have made us enlists all aspirations, and pursues each one with all that we make life worth living.
May you have decided to be with Chandai###Anantfua###forever###happy###with your loved ones.....I love you, Asimommmm.....

SOUL & BODY

originally posted on fb on August'21-2017


Your body is cloth on your soul as body rushed with time machine & soul will keep travelling from variety of clothes..
The famous actor Arnold Schwarzenegger posted a picture of him sleeping in the street under his famous bronze statue, and wrote sadly (How times changed).
The reason he wrote the sentence was not only because he was old, but because when the governor of California opened the hotel with the statue in front of him. The hotel officials told Arnold: "At any time you can come and have a room reserved in your name". When Arnold left judgment and went to the hotel, the administration refused to give him a room arguing that the hotel was fully booked.
He brought a cover and slept under the statue and asked people to imagine it. He wants to convey a message that when he was in a position they were praising him, and when he lost this position they forgot and did not fulfill their promise to him. Yes, times have changed. Do not trust your position or your owner or your power or your intelligence. All of this will not last.
In life after death.

Charansparsh of Lalbaugcha Raja

originally posted on fb on August'28-2017

It is believed that this Idol of Lord Ganesha is Navsacha Ganpati which means the "one who fulfills all wishes".
This is for the 1st time, I touched his feet & that's made me more emotional...

It was nostalgic feeling to see Lord so closely. The momentum, I was inside Lalbagacha Raja pandal, everyone started pushing me to TAKE DARSHAN ASAP & MOVE FURTHER as if they just waiting for entire caravan release to take blessings.

All of sudden a golden sparkling leg were open in front of me, the shine of gold were just not vanishing in-front of my eyes. All flud lights were on the sparkling golden legs & same lights were re-bounced sun rays like light in my eyes & I had to close my eye lids for fraction of seconds. Idol as high as more than 20 feet was positioned just infront of tiny sevank to give blessings...

I was hard pushed by adjourning lady & who equally dying touch holy feet of bappa..The moment i bow down my head, I felt like my eyes were soaked in blood type redness. For seconds, i could not realizing what happened to me as I was like a blinds fold handed stand Infront of Lord. His huge legs were spreads with blood redness kumkuma all over my forehead & mobile lenses (as seen in one of pics). I felt like Lord Ganesha showered his blessings upon me with all four hands, open his arms bestowing to meet his small sevak. I am actually blessed as it took me 10 seconds to take a vision of Lord “darshan” from so close & it took me only 7 minutes to reach to his pandal, starting from Kalachowky Old Post Office, to direct lords feet.....

This is his blessings I was waiting for years & years....I got it, oh my lord Ganesha.....

Lalbaug cha raja chhya Vijay Asssooo..
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What's in my cup??

originally posted on fb on September'24-2017


I am holding a cup of tea when someone comes along and bumps into me or shakes my arms, making spill my tea everywhere.
You spilled the tea because tea was in the cup. Whatever is inside the cup is, what will come out because someone has shake me.
Therefore, when life comes along and shakes us (which WILL definitely happen), whatever is inside us will come out. It's easy to fake it, until we get rattled.
So we have to ask ourselves...what's in my cup?
When life gets tough, what will spills over?
Joy, gratefulness, peace and humility?
Or anger, bitterness, harsh words and reactions?
We need to choose wisely!!!

Today let's work towards filling our cups with gratitude, forgiveness, joy, words of affirmation to yourself and others, kindness, gentleness and love...

Wishing you the most and MORE POSITIVIST IN YOUR CUP....

Can a son's kick make mother happy?

originally posted on fb on October'13-2017

Can a son's kick make a mother happy?

Their love was very different. She was happy every time he kicked her in the stomach.
Every time he kicked, she loved him more & more....as she felt his presence inside her... 
She waited for the time, she would hold her baby for the first time in her hand.....

He will be completing his 15 years on 8th Nov & he will be our LOVE FOREVER ....

Have you seen my mother ?

originally posted on fb on October'14-2017

Where is my Mother?

Merely a 12-year-old boy was standing barefoot in the shallow water of the ocean.
He was repeating the same sentence to the waves –
“Even if you touch my feet a thousand times, I won’t forgive you for taking my mother away."

At times, I missed her very much....& the best remedy i do is.....i cry out load to relieve my pain... 
all day is mothers day for me... — feeling emotional with Dhanesh PadhyaDarshna Padhya and Alka Parekh.



Happy Birthday (from Shilpa Padhya)

originally posted by Shilpa Padhya on October 27' 2017

A person who is a Rock solid man against any challenges life has thrown to him..... 
He's face them always with smile... 
A person who has always supported his children in all the decision they take... 
An iron MAN of Padhya Family to whom all look up.... 

Today on His special day we all bow down and seek His blessing..... 
Many many happy returns of the day Papa... stay blessed always... forever...



Happy Birthday Papa (from Dhanesh)

originally posted by Dhanesh Padhya on October 28

A very lovely description & message from my elder brother to my deda on his 80th birthday....
A special thanku to all for keeping him in ur prayers....


Finally, Dear Papa,
You were the one who stood on my side even when you knew I was wrong and let me tell you just how much I appreciated that!
My Papa is the one who have always been our inspiration, the one who pushed us to do the things that we felt that we could not have done but did so because you were there for us. My Papa is the one who patiently waited for us outside the school doors, drove us to school almost every single day, told off those bullies for us, protected us from any harm that may come to us, drove us far away when we are feeling off, who remembered our birthday every single time, who gave in to we wants especially when we face him with a tear in our face. My Papa is one of the walls of our life, the one we can lean on to and be assured that will never break down.
Dear Papa,
You were the one who always told me that I can do the impossible if only I tried hard enough, that alone is the reason I am here! Happy birthday to you, just know that I love you and that I would not know where I am right now if you are not there for me to guide me through it all. On your birthday, I want you to know that you are truly an inspiration, a friend and a teacher to all of us. Thank you for showing me how great the world is. I may need quite a lot of tips from you, so thank you in advance. I am lucky that I am given the best father in the world, a father who truly loves me with all of his heart. Love and laughter are two of the best things that you have given me, Papa! Thanks! Loving wishes for the most amazing Papa in the world! Stay fantastic!
How to say love you Papa is never been easier than with these happy birthday wishes for Papa.
And, thank you for always being there for us without getting in the way of the decisions we make in life. May you have many more birthdays to come.
Papa, your unconditional love has helped me to feel safe, warm and secure. Thank you for everything! You will always remain special to me. I love you.
I hope you know how much you really mean to me. Thank you so much for everything!


Happy Birthday My Boy

originally posted by Shilpa Padhya on November 8

It's a Boy they said.... 
A small little cute baby changed our life forever..... 
God sent us a special gift and blessed us with parenthood of this baby who's now a young, handsome Man.... 
We must have done something good somewhere so we are blessed with our DHYEYA...
Happy birthday Beta... May Almighty shower you with the best of His blessing... Love you and enjoy your Teen....

Wanna be RICH?

originally posted on fb on November 14 at 11:05am

Who does not want to become rich? 
The answer will be, everybody wants to....
But you will only be rich when you can buy something which money can't buy...

One of such thing is CHILDHOOD DAYS... 
And you will only realized when you grow old after crossing your 40's...how RICH you are....
Attached pix is a collage, right from their CHILDHOOD till they grown to matured TEENAGEHOOD.

Happy to seeing them growing together & mesmerizing my past times with their parents... As they are my very close friends.... Happy Children's Day To Me, Shilpa & Dhyeya....

Who is beautiful ?

originally posted on fb onNovember 22 at 9:53pm

During our school reunion...one of my friend mentioned - look at those girls..they are still looking so beautiful ...& even today looking at them, I skipped a heart beat & at the same time, boys are looking so old...many of them have whites hair or some of them are bald with protruding tummies & shrunken faces ...
It made me think...what makes a person beautiful? Is it just looks or something?

Obviously it's nice to look good...it may boost ones confidence & social interactions ...but is it enough?
I guess there is a vast difference between 'looking' beautiful & 'being' beautiful...

A lady who has disfigured her body during pregnancy ...now she is struggling with her complexes...
..but yet she is the source of unconditional love for family ...is beautiful...
A bald, obese man who is facing multiple professional challenges...yet he is the source of rock solid support for the family...is a beautiful person...
A working lady ...stressing herself out with balancing work & home... still finds time for her ill mother in-law neglecting her taunts...is beautiful.
😊
The fragrance of love & care spread by them is far superior to any strong perfume ...
Eventually the beauty of body will fade one day...but the beauty of soul will not...
Personally....how you ' look' matters for first few minutes...but how you 'are' ..matters lifetime...😊
Stay beautiful 😍& shared for my 40's friend.....


Interview for job...

originally posted on fb on November 25 at 8:27am

One young man went to apply for a managerial position in a big company.
He passed the initial interview, and now would meet the director for the final interview.
The director discovered from his CV that the youth's academic achievements were excellent.
He asked, Did you obtain any scholarships in school...?
the youth answered "NO".
Who paid for your school fees...?
" Parents ", he replied.
"Where did they work......?"
"They worked as clothes cleaner.”
The director requested the youth to show his hands.
The youth showed a pair of hands that were smooth and perfect.
"Have you ever helped your parents wash the clothes ?"
"Never, my parents always wanted me to study and read more books.
Besides, my parents can wash clothes faster than me.
The director said, "I have a request.
When you go home today, go and clean your parents hands, and then see me tomorrow morning.
The youth felt dejected.
When he went back home, he asked his parents to let him clean their hands.
His parents felt strange, happy but with mixed feelings,
They showed their hands to their son.
The youth cleaned their hands slowly.
His tear fell as he did that.
It was the first time he noticed that his parents hands were so wrinkled, and there were so many bruises in their hands.
Some bruises were so painful that they winced when he touched it.
This was the first time the youth realized that it was this pair of hands that washed the clothes everyday to enable him to pay the school fees.
The bruises in the hands were the price that the parents had to pay for his education, his school activities and his future.
After cleaning his parents hands, the youth quietly washed all the remaining clothes for them.
That night, parents and son talked for a very long time.
Next morning, the youth went to the director's office.
The Director noticed the tears in the youth's eyes, when he asked:
"Can you tell me what have you done and learned yesterday in your house....?"
The youth answered,
I cleaned my parents hand, and also finished cleaning all the remaining clothes.
“I now know what appreciation is.
Without my parents, I would not be who I am today...
By helping my parents, only now do I realize how difficult and tough it is to get something done on your own And I have come to appreciate the importance and value of helping one’s family.
The director said,
"This is what I am looking for in a manager.
I want to recruit a person who can appreciate the help of others, a person who knows the sufferings of others to get things done, and a person who would not put money as his only goal in life.”
“You are hired.”

Wednesday 6 December 2017

Where is happiness?


Everyone is hunting for happiness, be it money, be it status, be it attire or something else but I see happiness in, 
I take chances...
I do skip work at times...
I take my time off...& listen music of my choice... 
I go to clubbing...
I tell the truth, even though it is not favoring me...
I have learn to say NO...
I spend money on the things I love...
I laugh till my stomach hurts..
I sometimes dance even if I m too bad at it...
I pose stupidly for photos...
Many times I be child-like.....with Dhyeya...

Moral: Death is not the greatest loss in My life..
Loss is when life dies inside me while i M alive....I die to live happy....
originally posted on fb on November 26 at 8:23pm

Tuesday 5 December 2017

Hawa ka Jhoka...

originally posted on fb on November 28 at 6:24am
Yesterday night I was sitting in car in Home parking area...& was listening to Arijit Singh songs-AAJ ZID KAR RAHA DIL....

All of sudden from dark, one aged person from my society came close to my car & farted loudly.... the sound very load as I could hear from closed glasses as well... I was shocked to see Uncle farted, right behind me... I was wondering how come someone fart in public place. Even he was least bothered about me sitting in car. I immediately realized that my car AC was ON so I guess uncle didn't know I m sitting in car...& he released his chemical near my car, he farted jor Se...

I also took spontaneous decision & so i blow my car horn continuously...
Uncle was shocked....... & before he speaks anything, I open glass (very little) & shout at him that "Uncle, even my car can fart bigger then uuuuuu"....

What's next....... He vanished in the dark cloud...Hahaha😜😜😜😜😜

thokkkoooo taliiiii......