Dracula blood hound

Most of the time Dhyeya is always in war of words with Manju on dinner menu. Manju try her hands on desi spicy cuisine where as Dhyeya like tongue twister fancy & continental food.
No doubt Dhyeya is always winner because Manju prefer to bow down with his ladla ladoo...After finalization on Dhyeya choices of food, Manju give telephonic updates to Shilpa on dinner menu & she starts her sweet apathy with dialogue"bhabhi dekho na, Dhyeya mera khoon pee raha hain" & as a referee, Shilpa laugh out loud with new story of Dhyeya's sweet war with Manju......

Life of soldiers ...

originally posted on fb on January'26-2014

What life of Soldiers, express by his own words!!!

I was at Wagha Border, Attari, Amritsar in 2009..

After chatting for few seconds with this Soldier named Dhansing Purohit from Rajasthan, I felt like their life is like turbulence as they r always away from their family life. 

Being onto Pakistan Border, their life is always on hooked to death but they never fear as a slogan of death & patriotism is in their blood. They always sing a slogan of non-fearism what if they die in war-zone.

If they took me up & returned me with flag on my chest,
Box me up & send it to my home.
Put medals also on my chest,
Tell my Mom, i did my best on border.
Tell my Dad, not to cry.... He wont get tension from me anymore.
Tell my brother to study perfectly....Keys of my bike will be his permanently.
Tell my sister not to be upset.... Her brother will rise after sunset for veer pasali.
Tell my children to grow for betterment of Society
And tell my love not to cry...

BECAUSE I AM SOLDIER, BORN TO DIE....

JAI HIND....

My Windshield...Asmiben

originally posted on fb on August'20-2017

The other day, I was shocked to see my car windshield crack due to tree branch fallen on one corner. I was okay as the tree branch didn't fall on any of kids who played hide & seek in parking area but my car took a tole...

I feel windshields is also one of safety device just like seat belts and airbags. I was shocked because the adhesive creates a strong molecular bond between the glass and the vehicle & If the adhesive bond fails (due to stroke) at any point on the glass which can reduce the effectiveness of the air bag and substantially compromise the structural integrity of the roof & life of mine.

We all knows that none of us have many more years to live, optimistically I was in the mid life or 2nd half of my life & we can't take along anything when we r gone...be it my luxurious car also....

I thought I Spend the money
that should be spent,
enjoy what should be enjoyed,
donate what I am able to donate,
but don't make my child & grandchildren become parasites who may be waiting for the day i will die ! !

We should not worry about what will happen after we are gone because when we return to dust, we will feel nothing about praises or criticisms. The time to enjoy the worldly life and my hard earned wealth will be over ! ! !

After moving to bigger home, I had stopped worrying too much about Dhyeya, as he will have his own destiny & he should find his own way. I will show him way of success but walking on the road, will be his job.

Life should have more to it than working from cradle to grave.

One day passes without happiness, you will lose one day.
One day passes with happiness,
then you gain one day.

In good spirit,
sickness will cure.
In a happy spirit,
sickness will cure faster.
In high & happy spirits;
sickness will never come.

Stress leads to sickness & stress means the gap between expectations & reality.
More the gap, more the stress.
Expect nothing
But accept everything.

Above all, learn to cherish the goodness around and FRIENDS.
They all make you feel young & "wanted".
Without them, you are surely to feel lost ! !

The broken windshields is driving my best memories with Asmitaben. Her sudden death without alarm, was shocking moments for all of us, especially for Ajay as he has saved life of many but he could do nothing for his own loving mom. Destiny waits for none, let be doctor like him...

Driving 4 times a week for 75km to & from Mulund was still okay with me but the pain that Asitaben left for heaven abode was more painful & devastating situation for us....She was like a mother to me & Shilpa, she was like windshields to many lives, who has taken shelters under such a beautiful soul...wife, loving mom, mom-in-law, dadi, caretaker, a friend, aunt, sister & endless names...

Learn to "LET GO".
Because You cannot have the next breath until you let go the existing one....
......dasvidaniya to beautiful soul.
You have made us enlists all aspirations, and pursues each one with all that we make life worth living.

May you have decided to be with Chandai###Anantfua###forever###happy###with your loved ones.....I love you, Asimommmm.....

SOUL & BODY

originally posted on fb on August'21-2017

Your body is cloth on your soul as body rushed with time machine & soul will keep travelling from variety of clothes..

The famous actor Arnold Schwarzenegger posted a picture of him sleeping in the street under his famous bronze statue, and wrote sadly (How times changed).

The reason he wrote the sentence was not only because he was old, but because when the governor of California opened the hotel with the statue in front of him. The hotel officials told Arnold: "At any time you can come and have a room reserved in your name". When Arnold left judgment and went to the hotel, the administration refused to give him a room arguing that the hotel was fully booked.

He brought a cover and slept under the statue and asked people to imagine it. He wants to convey a message that when he was in a position they were praising him, and when he lost this position they forgot and did not fulfill their promise to him. Yes, times have changed. Do not trust your position or your owner or your power or your intelligence. All of this will not last.
In life after death.

Charansparsh of Lalbaugcha Raja

originally posted on fb on August'28-2017

It is believed that this Idol of Lord Ganesha is Navsacha Ganpati which means the "one who fulfills all wishes".

This is for the 1st time, I touched his feet & that's made me more emotional...

It was nostalgic feeling to see Lord so closely. The momentum, I was inside Lalbagacha Raja pandal, everyone started pushing me to TAKE DARSHAN ASAP & MOVE FURTHER as if they just waiting for entire caravan release to take blessings.

All of sudden a golden sparkling leg were open in front of me, the shine of gold were just not vanishing in-front of my eyes. All flud lights were on the sparkling golden legs & same lights were re-bounced sun rays like light in my eyes & I had to close my eye lids for fraction of seconds. Idol as high as more than 20 feet was positioned just infront of tiny sevank to give blessings...

I was hard pushed by adjourning lady & who equally dying touch holy feet of bappa..The moment i bow down my head, I felt like my eyes were soaked in blood type redness. For seconds, i could not realizing what happened to me as I was like a blinds fold handed stand Infront of Lord. His huge legs were spreads with blood redness kumkuma all over my forehead & mobile lenses (as seen in one of pics). I felt like Lord Ganesha showered his blessings upon me with all four hands, open his arms bestowing to meet his small sevak. I am actually blessed as it took me 10 seconds to take a vision of Lord “darshan” from so close & it took me only 7 minutes to reach to his pandal, starting from Kalachowky Old Post Office, to direct lords feet.....

This is his blessings I was waiting for years & years....I got it, oh my lord Ganesha.....

Lalbaug cha raja chhya Vijay Asssooo..

What's in my cup??

originally posted on fb on September'24-2017

I am holding a cup of tea when someone comes along and bumps into me or shakes my arms, making spill my tea everywhere.

You spilled the tea because tea was in the cup. Whatever is inside the cup is, what will come out because someone has shake me.

Therefore, when life comes along and shakes us (which WILL definitely happen), whatever is inside us will come out. It's easy to fake it, until we get rattled.

So we have to ask ourselves...what's in my cup?

When life gets tough, what will spills over?

Joy, gratefulness, peace and humility?

Or anger, bitterness, harsh words and reactions?

We need to choose wisely!!!

Today let's work towards filling our cups with gratitude, forgiveness, joy, words of affirmation to yourself and others, kindness, gentleness and love...

Wishing you the most and MORE POSITIVIST IN YOUR CUP....

Can a son's kick make mother happy?

originally posted on fb on October'13-2017

Can a son's kick make a mother happy?

Their love was very different. She was happy every time he kicked her in the stomach.

Every time he kicked, she loved him more & more....as she felt his presence inside her... 

She waited for the time, she would hold her baby for the first time in her hand.....

He will be completing his 15 years on 8th Nov & he will be our LOVE FOREVER ....